Excerpt from pages 136-137 of  Mars And Venus In The Bedroom A Guide To Lasting Romance And Passion by John Gray, Ph. D

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“Increasing a Woman’s Pleasure

A man tends to think in a very goal-orientd way.  He wants to provide increased pleasure for a woman in the most efficient way possible.  Once she is getting close to orgasm, he continues stimulating her to push her over the edge and achieve the goal.  The secret of giving her more pleasure is to bring her close to organsm and then pull back, slow down, lessen stimulation, and then star over.

To most effectively build a woman’s pleasure, a man should bring her to the point of orgasm and then let her energy settle down, then bring her back up, and then let her settle down.  When he brings her up to the verge of orgasm two or three times and then finally gives her an orgasm, a woman’s orgasm is much bigger and more fulfilling.

Each time she gets closer, her longing and desire for orgasm increases.  Her body also gets a chance to fully prepare for the orgasm.  By extending foreplay in this way, not only does she experience a bigger orgasm, but his orgasm is much more intense as well.

In polarity sex, a man should first build his energy toward his orgasm.  Then when he pauses and focuses on her, his energy will relax.  Later on,when it is his turn to have an orgasm, his pleasure will be much greater because he has waited.

One way a woman can signal to a man that she is about to have an orgasm is to use the code words, “Please.”  The word has a double meaning:  “Please stop or I will have an orgasm,” and “You are pleasing me so much.”  When he gets the signal, he can choose to continue and give her an orgasm or lessen direct stimulation of the clitoris for thirty seconds to a few minutes before he brings her up again.

When he pauses, it is not as if everything has to stop.  He can continue touching her all over her body in a very erotic way without directly touching her clitoris.  This gives her a chance to let her energy settle down a bit beofe he take it even higher.”v

Excerpt from pages 136-137 of  Mars And Venus In The Bedroom A Guide To Lasting Romance And Passion by John Gray, Ph. D

“Increasing a Woman’s Pleasure

A man tends to think in a very goal-orientd way.  He wants to provide increased pleasure for a woman in the most efficient way possible.  Once she is getting close to orgasm, he continues stimulating her to push her over the edge and achieve the goal.  The secret of giving her more pleasure is to bring her close to organsm and then pull back, slow down, lessen stimulation, and then star over.

To most effectively build a woman’s pleasure, a man should bring her to the point of orgasm and then let her energy settle down, then bring her back up, and then let her settle down.  When he brings her up to the verge of orgasm two or three times and then finally gives her an orgasm, a woman’s orgasm is much bigger and more fulfilling.

Each time she gets closer, her longing and desire for orgasm increases.  Her body also gets a chance to fully prepare for the orgasm.  By extending foreplay in this way, not only does she experience a bigger orgasm, but his orgasm is much more intense as well.

In polarity sex, a man should first build his energy toward his orgasm.  Then when he pauses and focuses on her, his energy will relax.  Later on,when it is his turn to have an orgasm, his pleasure will be much greater because he has waited.

One way a woman can signal to a man that she is about to have an orgasm is to use the code words, “Please.”  The word has a double meaning:  “Please stop or I will have an orgasm,” and “You are pleasing me so much.”  When he gets the signal, he can choose to continue and give her an orgasm or lessen direct stimulation of the clitoris for thirty seconds to a few minutes before he brings her up again.

When he pauses, it is not as if everything has to stop.  He can continue touching her all over her body in a very erotic way without directly touching her clitoris.  This gives her a chance to let her energy settle down a bit beofe he take it even higher.”